| Location | Durrington,wiltshire |
| Age | 0 |
| Date of Birth | 22/02/2008 |
| Date of Death | 22/02/2008 |
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Baby Bert Cavanagh
22/02/08
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Durrington,Wiltshire
Mother,hannah oborne,Father danny cavanagh,sister georgia,Grandma pat and Grandad david,Nanny
sylvie,and Grandad peter,Auntys Catherine and kelly,and uncles Reggie and dave and cousins Tyla and
jack
Born sleeping
froze berts memorial for a few days as a way to protect him from weirdo groups on facebook but we
back now sorry for missed candles love and hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
im away for the weekend so wont be able to light any candles really sorry all your beautiful angels
will be in my thoughts love and hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
PLEASE READ ALL MY LOVELY GTS FRIENDS PG MENTIONED
ON THE 9TH OF APRIL I AM GOING INTO HOSPITAL TO HAVE BERTS LITTLE SISTER SO OBVIOUSLY I WONT BE ABLE
TO GET ON AND LIGHT CANDLES FOR YOUR ANGELS IM REALLY SORRY WILL GET BACK ON AS SOON AS I CAN BUT
ITS GONNA BE MANIC AS IM SURE YOU UNDERSTAND WILL BE THINKING OF YOU ALL AND YOUR PRECIOUS ANGELS
WILL LIGHT CANDLES AS USUAL TOMORROW LOVE AND HUGS AND THANKS FOR YOUR CONTINUED SUPPORT
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so sorry no candles today not feeling the best today as you can imagine will be back to lighting
candles tomorrow thanks for your support xxxxxxxxxx
hi ladies and your precious angels,me and bert would like to invite you all to berts 1st birthday
party on sunday 22nd february starting at 12.00 in heaven on cloud number 9 its lovely there all
welcome there will be a disco lots of yummy food and plenty of angel games to play fancy dress
optional bert will be going as his favourite spongebob square pants hope you can make it love and
hugs xxxxxxxxx
Baby Bert Cavanagh was born sleeping on 22/02/08,the saddest day of my life,he grew his wings and
became an angel forever in heaven.I miss him so much,it hurts badly,but i love him like ive never
loved anyone.He is my son and will always be in my heart forever till the day i die and we meet
again.
I remember the day i found out i was pregnant August 14th 2007,it was the most happyess days of my
life,my dream had come true,i had always wanted to be a mummy and knew something was missing from my
life,i was shaking but so so excited.I was going to be a mummy.I had been anxious the whole way
through,but thought as every milestone passed me by i was getting closer to the reward,my twenty
week scan came and to my relief everything was fine i could finally relax a bit more,he looked like
he was breakdancing in there so active he looked such a happy chappy.Shortly after christmas my
world came crashing down i was 23 weeks pregnant or there abouts,i was concerned with lack of
movements so was refered for a scan,only to be told there was a problem how could there be?i thought
everything was fine at 20 weeks,i was devastated and heartbroken.My precious baby had a severe brain
hemerrhage,caused by feto-maternal bleeding,i have only negative platelets in my blood which is
unusual,never knew this until it was to late and caused such damage,a silent killer.At the time
docters around me,could not tell me a definate outcome would my baby live or die,but they did know
for sure he would have a severe disability and a very poor quality of life,but i chose not to give
up on my baby,selfish as it may seem,i would have looked after bert with a disability,he was still
my son my heart.Sadly my baby boy couldnt fight no more he was just to poorly and he was born
sleeping at 32 weeks.
Bert was his nickname for my bump,and it seemed natural for us to call him that.He was the most
beautiful baby i had ever seen,so tiny but so perfect with the cutest of hands,he looked just like
his daddy.He made me a mummy and im so proud of my brave little man.Baby boy we all love you so very
much,and there is a gaping hole in our lives that can never be filled.Your always be our son the son
we never had.sweet dreams bert love your very proud mummy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
We do not need a special day
To bring you to our minds.
The days we do not think of you
Are very hard to find.
Each morning when we awake,
We know that you are gone.
And no one knows the heart ache
As we try to carry on.
Our hearts still ache with sadness
And secret tears still flow.
What it meant to lose you
No one will ever know.
Our thoughts are always with you,
Your place no one can fill.
In life we loved you dearly;
In death we love you still.
~~thinking of you now and always Hannah and Bert ~~
Thinking of you today
Hi hannah
Just sending you my love today on Berts 6 month angelversary,i know how hard it will be for you and know how painful it is for you x
Bert is looking down on his lovely mummy today of that im sure and sending you the biggest kisses from heaven x
He knows how much you love and miss him Hannah x
If you need me im here for you as always.
Love
Simone x
My Mother
Oh Mother, my Mother
I touch your tears
Invisible fingers
Soothing your skin
I know you think of me so often
In the day, in the night,
In your dreams
Going into an empty nursery
Knowing I'll never be there
But I am...in your heart
In your soul, I shall always be
For you gave so selfishly
Of yourself.
Inside of you, you created
Such a world for me
A world of laughter, of love
Of sadness, of sorrow
Every emotion people come to know
You shared with me.
And even though I may never
Feel your arms around me
I felt your heart beating,
Like a lullaby, singing me to sleep
And your spirit giving me a safe haven
Already protecting me
Nurturing me
Preparing me of things to come.
But sometimes the journey
Of life pulls souls apart
And yes, I had to go on
To another place.
I wish I could stay
I wish this was a desision
I could make
And I know you do too.
Know this wherever you are:
I will always remember
That yours was the first love
The first joy, the first soul
I will ever know
You gave me the courage to
Go on in my journey
I hope I can do the same
For you
Your heart beat will always
Call me to you.
Love, your child
Perfect Child
Ten little fingers that will never grip,
Two little legs that now no longer kick,
A delicate face that won't smile or cry,
Tiny hands that never waved goodbye,
Two precious feet that will never walk,
A pair of soft lips that will never talk,
But a beautiful, pure soul that has gone up above,
And left me with feelings and memories and love.
Miss you and love you. So glad we had you. xxxxxxx
sorry 4 ur lost
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In Memory Of Little Bert xx
In memory of Bert Cavanagh. Strangely my husband Terry Cavanagh from Tidworth died of cancer on 19 Jan 08. It was just the name that made me send my message. I know the pain you went through and are still going through RIP little angel Jean Cavanagh xx
I feel more depressed
Each day when I awake
I wish to god you could tell me
There has been a big mistake.
My darling son was taken
From his mothers love
To live with the angels
In heaven up above
I did not have him with me
For the time I should have had
No longer can I hold him
Which makes me very sad?
The pain of losing my son
Shows in every single tear
I spend each day missing him
Longing to have him near
Life for me is lonely now
Without him by my side
My Broken shattered heart
Is very hard to hide
People tell me that time is a healer
That the pain will go away
They don’t understand
That this pain is here to stay
For when you lose a child
There is nothing that can compare
The bond we had at their birth
Will never leave, it’s always there
The love a mother has
Runs so very deep
That love is so special
It’s in her heart to keep
A mother’s heart is broken
She is ripped apart inside
There is a part of her missing
It left when her child died
So please don’t tell me to get over it
For this I can not do
Unless you understand my feelings
And this has happened to you
Only another mother who has lost a child
Can understand my pain
Because they also suffer daily
As the memories of their child remain
We are a band of mothers
Whose hearts will never heal?
For the loss of our children
Is for us, so very real.
xxx
We are connected, My child and I,
by an invisible cord, not seen by the eye.
It's not like the cord that connects
us 'til birth
This cord can't be seen by any on Earth.
This cord does its work right from the start.
It binds us together, attatched to my heart.
I know that it's there, though no one can see,
The invisible cord from my child to me.
The strength of this cord is hard to describe.
It can't be destroyed, it can't be denied.
It's stronger than any cord man could create,
It withstands the test, can hold any weight.
And though you are gone,
Though you are not here with me,
The cord is still there, but no one can see.
It pulls at my heart, I am bruised...I am sore,
But this cord is my lifeline, as never before.
I am thankful that God connects us this way,
A mother and child--Death can't take it away!
so sorry
my sincere sympathy for the loss of your baby god bless you all may he help and guide you all through this awful time of great sadness xx
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your life was gone so suddenly
its hard to reason why
the hardest part of all
was saying goodbye
sweet dreams baby
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Keep my memory with you,
For memories never die;
I will be there with you,
When you look across the sky.
I will be there in the clouds,
In the birds that fill the air;
In the beauty of a fragrant rose,
You will find my memory there.
You will feel me in the tenderness,
Of a tiny baby's touch;
You will hear me if you listen,
In the twilight's gentle hush.
When your hearts are heavy,
And you feel that you are alone;
Just reach down deep inside of you,
For your heart is now my home.
I will always be with you,
I will never go away;
For I will live on in your hearts,
Forever and a day.
ILL HOLD YOU IN HEAVEN
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